Child Sexual Abuse
You who abuse just don't understand the trauma you cause to so many lives when you sexually abuse a child.
The pain and sadness this brings to ones lives seems unending.
It is a horrible tragedy when a child is forced to lose innocence before its
time.
It is important to make children aware of dangers and to be alert to safe
behavior. That is a must to ensure their survival. But they should not be robbed
of their childhood and forced into adulthood before they are ready or old
enough. They should not grow up afraid of everybody and everything.
I cannot understand the mind of a child molester. I will never figure out what
makes an adult want to harm any child. It is beyond my thought process what
kind of sick and tortured mind would use a child as a sexual thrill. When an
adult has crossed that line, I give them no credit for being human, he is just
evil. In my opinion, he should be locked up for life and tortured slowly. The
innocence and trust he has stolen from these children can never be replaced. The
damage is monumental and the children are scarred emotionally for life. It is
only right that the predator pay with his own physical and mental health for the
damage that was inflicted on a young person. When you look at the Web site of
registered sex offenders, many of them are listed as having more than one
offense. There are several that do only have one offense listed, but in my mind
that is just the one time they were caught.
Coming soon will be one more of many site with information of all kinds about child sexual abuse. I hope to help the child, the adult and any one who might be an offender.
Any one that reads this, what ever you do NEVER harm a child. JUST STOP yourself and get help. (fyi this is not a game for the child. A child believes in you to protect him or her and to do right. You have no right to do this. It is illegal and immoral. JUST EVIL. If a child loves you, it should never be turned into some EVIL sexual act. This is NOT good, fun, play, a learning experence, or anything you might think it is in your evil mind. STOP YOURSELF)
I don't believe you are sick if you have sexual interest in children. You are not sick. You do what you want. You are not putting anyone's soul, life, love, body, happiness or desires above yours. You are just thinking about yourself and doing what you want. YOU ARE EVIL. You can make the choice to not act upon feelings, thoughts or emotions. For example, we have to go pee several times during the day. It is a natural act. We get the urge and want to go. We don't just go wherever we want. We hold it and go in an appropriate place at an appropriate time. I bet even you do that? If this is a sexual high for you than you should find a person of your own age group that is a willing adult partner. If this is a control power issue, than beat up a pillow. Grow a garden. Restore a car. Build something. Get some counseling. Read some books on self love. Learn to like yourself. I am sure if you had any self confidence or self love you wouldn't be thinking about destroying a child's life. Maybe, even worse is a child who trust you like a family member or someone you are leading.
But then again, I don't think any child molesters would be reading this web site anyway.
Here is a link to a United States sex offender search. See what is lurking in your neighbor hood. Sad, many times it is in your own household.
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Search.asp
There are some states, such as Missouri, that puts every legal action online. Let me know other states that do this, and this is a good place to look up offenders still in jail... or possibly getting out of jail without being charged.
http://www.courts.mo.gov/casenet
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