Soul Mate of Mine

        I believe that all relationships in our lives are to teach us and to help us grow spiritually. I also believe that soul mates (and there may be more than one) are in our lives to help us to learn our spiritual lessons. A soul mate may be someone in your life who constantly gets "under your skin" or may be someone who you have a deep, intimate relationship. I believe that we are soul mates because there was an instant feeling of "coming home" when we got together and everyday we recognize how we help one another in our spiritual growth.

"The search for a soul mate is essentially a search for balance."
"Soul mates form a process of completion—the yin and yang balance. We are all moving around in life doing several things required for living, but fundamentally we are in search for that balance. Then come the concept of marriage.


There is the eternal search for a soul mate. Someone who is the perfect match. "The one who will satisfy all my desires, meet all my expectations and fulfill all my dreams!" Well, if it were only that simple! If you really care to know the truth, your soul mate is the very person who will be the most challenging. You soul mate is the one who has contracted with you - AT THE SOUL LEVEL- to help you to be the best spiritual person you can be. Relationships as a Spiritual Path dictate that your soul mate will be the one who will trigger you into all your relationship issues...past and present! Why? To clear them up! That's why! Spiritual growth IS the intention to clear up debilitating issues that are attached to the ego. The ego loves the drama, holds the pain and hinders spiritual advancement. Your soul mate will come into your life to specifically show you what needs to be healed and cleared at the ego level. The soul-level agreement is to help each other to raise the ego's vibrations to one of Divine Ego.

In Celtic Spiritual tradition, it is believed that the soul radiates all about the physical body, what some refer to as an aura. When you connect with another person ( Spiritual Soul mates) and become completely open and trusting with that individual, your two souls begin to flow together. Should such a deep bond be formed, it is said you have found your Anam Cara or soul mate.


Sometimes, if you're lucky...you get close enough to a person to see beyond the immediate physical features and 'touch'  what may be the soul. Obviously if both experience this at the same time its effect is greatly magnified. The entry point is the eyes.......and although I'm trying now to put the feeling into words I know that it's really beyond description...beyond words...And yet maybe one word comes a little close........"Love".

This midi is Wonderful Tonight... someday my soul mate will think this way about me.

 Eric Clapton - Wonderful Tonight

It's late in the evening; she's wondering what clothes to wear.
She puts on her make-up and brushes her long blonde hair.
And then she asks me, "Do I look all right?"
And I say, "Yes, you look wonderful tonight."

We go to a party and everyone turns to see
This beautiful lady that's walking around with me.
And then she asks me, "Do you feel all right?"
And I say, "Yes, I feel wonderful tonight."

I feel wonderful because I see
The love light in your eyes.
And the wonder of it all
Is that you just don't realize how much I love you.

It's time to go home now and I've got an aching head,
So I give her the car keys and she helps me to bed.
And then I tell her, as I turn out the light,
I say, "My darling, you were wonderful tonight.
            Oh my darling, you were wonderful tonight. "                           

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